Its a Dhira Anan’s article
May nature give you real knowledge.
BDNewsExpress: When we love somebody, we surrender. We try to see ourselves in the mind mirror of the person we open our heart up. When we express our deep selves and reliance to somebody, we are providing that person with immense power to keep us in mental captivity and wither away our natural self esteem. Contrarily, if those people are filled with as much goodness as we felt in our guts, loving them can help us to fly. Therefore, love in response to our cynic selves requires a lot of accuracy in prior judgment, which we find wrong most of the time. In this path of heavy risk, we can end up with Stockholm Syndrome or immense hatred or enough power to give a Goddamn carelessness and free will. So the end result actually depends on the strength of our very own persona. And again we can misjudge ourselves too. Moonshine can turn out to be mirage.
Therefore, when we say we love somebody, we are actually being judgemental. We are judging that specific one as well as ourselves. And a judgement to wipe out the risk factors and make it as pleasant as we want requires many many scientific analysis and research for years.
So the conclusion is, if you are trying to enjoy the uncertainty associated with desires, you are actually choosing a new career. You are a scientist now! Congratulations!
Date: 13/11/19
